The picture has the correct name for this day; National Pediatric Hematology/Oncology Nurses Day. I truly hope no one in your family or circle of friends ever needs to get to know one of these very special people, but we know life isn’t always fair.
My daughter had major surgery when she was 3 1/2 to fix problems in her urinary tract. I’m thankful it wasn’t cancer or a blood disorder. Luckily she hasn’t needed more surgery as she ages. That Doc did a great job. Where, you might ask. At Chanute Air Force Base Hospital in Rantoul, Illinois. That was way back in 1978. The base isn’t open anymore.
As a young mother, away from home, with two children and an Air Force husband, that was not an easy time in my life. If you haven’t had any connection with a branch of the U. S. military, I will tell you they are a brotherhood. In base housing, your neighbors are generally immediate friends, because they are away from home, just like you. There is a bond produced by understanding that a military member’s life is not his/her own. When the government of the country the member has signed their life away to, says jump. you jump. It’s not a question, or a I’ll think about it, it’s how it is. The families bond together just like the active duty members do because it’s necessary. (I’m not complaining, just trying to explain. I do digress.)
The nurses, techs, room cleaners, and doctors in a military hospital are all active duty military members, or they were in 1978, maybe it’s different now. Anyway, I admire them highly. Taking care of someone you can communicate with is one thing, caring for a baby is another. Taking care of a child or teen that wants no part of a stranger can be trying too. I have noticed that sick children seem to be calmer than non-sick. My daughter’s surgeon said she didn’t feel good enough to be a brat, until he fixed her. It was worth it.
I am an emotional person. I cry at things in movies that others don’t even see as poignant. I cry when I’m happy, when I’m sad, and when I’m frustrated. So, again, I admire any nurse that can care for a child, do their best, comfort the parent, then watch them walk out of their lives as quickly as they appeared. Maybe it’s the quick come and go that makes it easier for them. I couldn’t do their job without getting attached.
I’ll repeat, I pray you never have to know one of these caring, capable, super-human nurses. I’m thankful they exist.